Showing posts with label spend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spend. Show all posts

Wednesday, 29 January 2014

Confession time

Well, now that the first month of the 'new' year has almost past, I’m sure you’re DYING to know how restrained I’ve been in sticking to my list of things-I’m-not-going-to-buy.  So, one by one, here is the truth:   

1.       Handbags – 2 (a smallish cross-body, and a largish shopper/cross body – from TKMaxx, of course...)  I think this particular addiction is going to take some serious treatment to overcome
2.       Travel bags – 0 (although we don’t have any trips planned right now, so probably not a good test)
3.       Storage containers – 0 (feeling good!)
4.       Skirts/dresses – 1 of each – in the sale….  Although I have actually worn both items more than once so far (with long boots), so that isn’t too bad!
5.       Tights – 2 (see previous item)
6.       Cookbooks – physical – 0, virtual – about 8 – although I have resisted the urge to add another glossy hardback book, with lots of exciting pictures, to my bookshelf, I have purchased around 8 e-cook books.  They were VERY cheap though….
7.       Kitchen appliances and gadgets – 0
8.       Fitness equipment – 0 (Fitness equipment used – 0)
9.       Apps – hmmm, I recently bought a Nexus tablet, which runs on Android so some app purchases were necessary.  More details to follow at a later date…
10.   Black trousers - 0
11.   Black boots – 1 pair (I HAD intended to get rid of an older pair when I got them home, but I just couldn’t choose which pair had to go…)
12.   Heston’s popcorn ice-cream – 0 (although I have bought 4 tubs of Haagen Daaz Strawberry Cheesecake, which is ALMOST as irresistible)
13.   Travel size toiletries – 0 (see point 2)
14.   Bikinis – 0 (as if!)
15.   Indian spices – 0 (and managed to cook 2 curries using the spices I bought before my blog)
16.   Bargains – FAILED!  See items 4, 6, 11, 17, 27, 29…
17.   Food bought on its “use-by” date – fail!  Have definitely continued to buy these ‘bargains’
18.   Clothes for DS – 1 - a tiger ‘onesie’ for Christmas (he loved it!)
19.   Fleeces – 0
20.   Earrings – 0 (although Santa brought me a pair of long silver ones…)
21.   Stuff to put in bath – 0 (Santa didn’t bring me any of this!)
22.   Tins of chopped tomatoes – 0 (managed to use up a few tins from stocks)
23.   Deodourant - 0
24.   Stationery – some sticky labels, but that wasn’t too much of a splurge!
25.   Novelty items as gifts – totally failed!  Well, it was hard to fill up an 11 year-old’s stocking without resorting to some of the items I vowed not to buy.  Items included some “Bush Tucker critters”, which he wouldn’t try - and neither would anyone else; some little puzzles, which never get done; some silly little books, which never get read; various other over-priced c**p that I have already forgotten!)
26.   Learn to speak Spanish books – 0 (I think I’m ‘fixed’ of this urge – for now….)
27.   Fresh food on offer – definitely didn’t stick to this one.  Bought lots of 3 for 2s, 4 for 3s, etc, over the Christmas period.  Didn’t waste TOO much
28.   Bed and bath linen – 0 (although we did buy a new bed for DS)
29.   Comfortable clothes – hmmmm – I guess I have to come clean about the cashmere tracksuit I bought in the sale from Tesco.  They are lovely and soft for lounging around in (and were a fab bargain), but they look like PJs, so not the sort of thing to be caught wearing out!
30.   Cheap versions of expensive items – as I mentioned in item 9, I bought a new Nexus 7 tablet.  I really wanted an iPad mini, but it was almost twice the price.  I don’t think this really counts, as the Nexus is a pretty good device (is has, of course, required some additional investment in Android apps…)
31.   Costco items not on my list – popped in to Costco for a few items on my list (24 tins of baked beans, lots of bottles of wine, some meat, etc), and did come away with some additional meat and frozen food that wasn’t on my list.  Shouldn’t have done this as I didn’t have enough room in my freezer!  (note to self – must start using up all the stocks in the freezer….) 

Well, we’re at the end of the first month, and it has been a bit dismal really.  I had hoped that by broadcasting my intentions to the world (!!), I might actually stop and think before purchasing any of the items on my “banned” list.  Obviously it hasn’t worked, so I think I need to try an alternative approach.  Perhaps I should have a month when I am only allowed to spend cash!  Having to prise grubby little notes out of my purse, and hand them over to receive lots of little coins to carry around in return might go some way to making me give a little more thought to what I purchase.  However, unless someone forcibly removed all internet access, I wouldn’t be able to control the urge to accept the offer of “buy now”, “add to basket”, “checkout”… It is just soooooooooo easy, and you don’t even have to enter your name and address or payment details on many sites.  It isn’t even like spending money!  (until the credit card bill arrivesL ).  Perhaps I need one of these "Smart" cards?

Tuesday, 31 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 31: Anything in Costco that is NOT on my list when I walk in


Costco is one of those places where customers should be given some training before being allowed to visit.  Something about being able to buy things in bulk seems to turn us into hunter/gatherers and make us feel that we need to stock up our cupboards in case of Armageddon.  Never mind the fact that we only use one tin of tomatoes a year - you can buy them in crates of 24 and you'll never run out!!  Start doing this too often and you won't be able to get through your front door for boxes of food and household items. 

A number of my previous blogs refer to the "Curse of Costco" -
One of the biggest selling points for Costco as far as I am concerned (in addition to the fact that the car parking spaces are huge and designed for American cars),  isn't the fact that I can buy in bulk, and nor is it the fact that things work out cheaper (because they don't always).  For me, it is the fresh meat and produce - I think it is the fact that it is American, but the meat is always of a very high standard.  You have to have some freezer space, and be prepared to split it, wrap it and freeze it when you get home, but the quality far exceeds anything you can buy in the supermarkets.  The fresh fruit and veg is also lovely, but you do have to ensure you have plans to use it up or freeze it. 

All Costcos are identical in layout (apparently).  If I went to a Costco in Seattle, for example, it would be exactly the same as the one that I go to in Milton Keynes.  How cool!  Of course I wouldn't go to a Costco in the US in case the urge to stock up came over me, which might cost me a lot in excess baggage charges...hey hum!


Anyway, back to the point!  When I walk through the door at Costco, any memory of the stocks of tomatoes, deodourant, bath products, cleaning products, and anything else that is crammed into every inch of cupboard and freezer space, goes out of my head.  The hunter/gatherer urge comes over me and off I go, filling my trolley with bulk packs of everything from toilet tissue to tea bags.  Quite often the price isn't much of a saving on the normal supermarket, so there is absolutely no reason to buy in bulk as it is very unlikely that I am going to be unable to get to a supermarket in the next twelve months!

And don't mention the appliances/gadgets/clothes/books sections!  Well, as I have mentioned them, it is amazing how long you can spend looking around them and how it is so easy to come home with a new rice cooker, handbag, TV, or pretty much anything!  You can also get your eyes tested and get new glasses, get your photos processed, buy an engagement ring and get new tyres on your car! 

I must either learn to stick to what is on my list or consider cancelling my Costco membership!



Sunday, 29 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 29: Comfortable clothes


I mentioned my work "uniform" of black trousers and black boots in my previous blogs, and I certainly have a lot of both items in my wardrobe.  My non-work wardrobe has become, I'm afraid, a little bit too much on the "comfortable" side, and not a lot of the "style".  I haven't quite succumbed to buying the elasticated waist "slacks", that can be found in the week-end supplements - well, not quite - I admit to viewing them occasionally and thinking how nice and comfy an elastic waist would be...  

I'm already on the slippery slope to scruffiness due to my extensive fleece collection.  I have one pair of jeans that I tend to live in at the week-end, along with flat shoes/boots/trainers, a t-shirt and a fleece.  Easy to put on, easy to wear, but a bit samey.  It's not that I don't have other pairs of jeans, but when I drag myself out of bed at the week-end, I just can't be bothered to try and squeeze myself into a pair of jeans that are a little tight, or require a heel to be worn.  The jeans aren't particularly scruffy, it's just that when worn with a fleece, they do rather look like I can't be bothered - especially as I tend not to put make-up on at the week-end.  I never used to be so slovenly - I blame pregnancy.  The only bottoms that fitted were those with a very loose elastic waist, and once I realised just how comfortable they were to wear, there was no going back to tight zips, buttons and studs.  


As well as the comfy jeans, I have a number of pairs of jogging bottoms in which I love to loll around the house.  I haven't yet ventured out in them, but it's only a matter of time...

I think one of my resolutions should be to make a little more effort with my appearance - perhaps by wearing a nice skirt or dress?  A different pair of trousers or jeans would be a good start.  I must certainly never go out of the house with a pair of elastic-waisted trousers.  

Saturday, 28 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 28: Bed and bath linen

I have put this one in because it is a very dangerous time of year for such items.  With the sales now in full swing, there are many stores out there selling lots of beautiful bed linen - duvet covers, sheets, pillow cases - and towels of every size and colour.  It's always tempting to look at pictures of beautiful bedrooms, with perfectly smooth duvets/bed covers, covered in matching and contrasting cushions, and beautifully draped (matching!) curtains.  Rather like the way food is sprayed with all sorts of disgusting chemicals to prepare it for the glossy photos in cook books and on packets, these pictures are of beds that have never been slept in and are not likely to be.  How can duvets be that "puffed up"?  The reality is that the top bit always goes flat, and no amount of shaking and puffing will make it look even all over.  And who, in reality, can be @r$ed to remove a cushion mountain off the bed every night and put it back again in the morning?  Does anyone actually do that???  I can so easily be fooled by the perfect images into thinking that my bedrooms could look like that if I just buy that particular set of bed linen and 24 cushions. 
The dream...

The reality


The point here is really just how many sets of sheets and towels do I need?  I have the set on each bed plus a spare set for each bed for the emergency situation that might occur if the sheets I wash don't dry in time to be put straight back on the same day - an unlikely occurrence as they go in the tumble drier.  Similarly with towels - we all have a bath sheet plus a spare, and there are heaps of hand towels plus some bath towels for guests (in the rare event that we have some). 

Just walk away from the bed linen and towels...

Friday, 27 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 27: Fresh food on 3 for 2, 2 for 1, etc

One of the things that really narks me when I am shopping in a supermarket is in the fresh produce aisles (including fruit, vegetables, meat, fish, dairy/chilled foods) when they have offers that require you to buy more than you need of an item in order to make a saving.  Whatever they call it -  4 for 3, 3 for 2, buy 1 get 1 half price, etc.  It's all very well making these savings, but when you really only want one item, you feel that you're being ripped off by paying full price for it! 



Take bean salad, for example.  I really like mixed bean salad, but all of the supermarkets seem to do it on a buy 2 offer.  I really don't want 2 bean salads - I am the only person in our house that eats it, and I am not going to get through 2 full tubs in the 2 remaining days to the "eat by" date.  I just can't bring myself to only buy 1 tub and pay...FULL PRICE!!! 

The stores are getting a LITTLE bit more helpful, in that you can now mix and match items - rather than 3 cauliflowers for the price of 2, you can have a cauliflower, a few leeks and a turnip, perhaps.  A better deal if you want them all, but I still don't see why they can't just reduce the price for 1 bloody cauliflower!  My fridge is full of rotting fruit and veg that have been bought as "add-ons" in order that I can get a good bargain.  This post is very closely related to the bargains post and the food on it's sell-by date post.

It is very irresponsible of the stores contributing to the masses of food that goes to waste each week by offering incentives to people to stock up on perishable goods. 






Thursday, 26 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 26: Learn to speak Spanish books

I really want to be able to speak Spanish.  Ever since my very first trip abroad, which was to Ibiza in 1984, I have tried many times to learn the language, but I have never actually got much better than being able to ask someone how they are, order a meal, count to 10 and say Merry Christmas (which is not that useful as I have never spent Christmas in Spain). 

Every now and then I feel the enthusiasm to become more fluent coming on and, rather than going through the huge library of "Learn Spanish" books/tapes/CDs/ computer software that I already have, I am persuaded to buy the latest book/CD/software that promises to make it very easy to become fluent in Spanish.  I load tracks onto my MP3 player to listen to as I walk around, and I read a few chapters of the book, before life gets in the way.  I should probably start doing these courses from chapter 4 onwards, which would enable me to actually make some progress. 


Unfortunately I can't buy the one thing that I need to learn Spanish and that is the time! 


Wednesday, 25 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 25: Novelty items as gifts


First of all, a very Merry Christmas to the hoards of readers who are reading this blog fresh off the press!  As today is Christmas Day, the day when we all waste tons of money on naff gifts that will be in the charity donation bag by New Year, I thought I would highlight a particular type of gift that I have, occasionally, resorted to buying over the years. 


It is always difficult to find just the right present for people who have everything they need/want, and who will buy things for themselves throughout the year (some of them even buy things for themselves whilst they are Christmas shopping for others - no names mentioned here...). Anyway, it is for these people (and they are usually men!), that numerous websites have popped up, selling gifty things that are designed to look like a lot of thought has been put into the purchase.  It's not that I'm totally against these sort of sites - I think it is very sweet that you can buy a specially engraved locket for your loved one, with a compartment where they can store your toenail clippings so that they will always have them close, or an automated toothpaste squeezer in the shape of a cow where the toothpaste comes from the... well... (I haven't ACTUALLY seen these exact items, but you know what I mean).  
The thing is, once you've bought something that your loved one can wear, put on the wall or put on display, you have to stop!  You can only get away with buying more than one of these items if your current "loved one" isn't the same as last year's. 

A fairly recent practice that keeps all of these tat shops and websites in business, is the "Secret Santa".  Honestly, if everyone who was involved in these schemes from work places, schools and groups of friends, all gave their fivers or tenners to worthwhile charities, an awful lot of good could be done in the world.  Instead of which, millions of items of completely useless tat are opened by millions of people, who have a quick laugh then chuck it in the bin (unless it is something edible, like a willy-shaped chocolate bar, which tastes fowl, but they'll eat it).  Is this really what Christmas has become? Well that's my soapbox moment over. 




Here are just a few of the multitude of websites selling the type of things that I am talking about:

http://www.naffgiftshop.co.uk/
http://www.iwantoneofthose.com/
http://www.notonthehighstreet.com/
http://www.zazzle.co.uk
http://www.cafepress.co.uk
http://www.red5.co.uk


There are also hoards of shops on the high street - many that just pop up for Christmas, such as:
Hawkins Bazaar
Justformen












I am particularly concerned when items such as the following are included in a page titled "Must have gadgets".  Gosh, how does one manage to live without one of these?







Tuesday, 24 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 24: Stationery

When I was young, I used to LOVE stationery of any kind.  It was such a treat to go into W H Smith to look at all the stationery, and to SMELL it.  Pens, pencils, rubbers of all shapes, sizes and colours, note pads and paper, rulers, post-its... 


Things haven't changed that much since I grew up.  I still get very excited when I go into the stationery department of a large store, or, better still, a specialist stationery store such as Paperchase.  The one thing that has changed is the amazing amount of choice available.  I could spend hours and hours just browsing the lovely notebooks, paper, pens, bits and bobs... (let's not even start on post-its...)

Oh yes - one other thing has changed since I was a wee girl - the advent of technology.  Being the gadget geek that I am, I rarely pick up a pen and I have absolutely no need for a paper notebook/planner of any sort, as all my notes, thoughts, todos, appointments, addresses, etc, are kept in various apps and synced between various computers/tablets/phone.  Such a shame that I don't get to use any of the pretty paper notebooks that I buy when I get carried away in the stationery department!

Monday, 23 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 23: Deodourant

I'm not planning to go au natural, and forsake deodourant for ever more.  No, it's just that the curse of Costco strikes again!  This is the third day that I have had to fess up to the overstocking of certain products, and it is all down to this wretched shop!  Something happens when I walk through the door of the huge warehouse, and I completely forget to focus on the things I actually went in for (which is usually meat and wine).  I wander around the huge aisles, heaving huge packs of stuff into my huge trolley, then haul it all through the checkouts.  It is only as I put my debit card (they don't allow payment by credit card) into the little machine and look at the huge number in front of me that I come out of my trance and realise that, once again, I have purchased a load of items that I don't need and, worse still, already have copious quantities of in store at home. 

My current deodourant stash consists of a pack of 12 large aerosol cans and a pack of 12 of the roll-on variety.  DH won't use them as they are too girly-smelling, so I have supplies for the next couple of years. 

If only I'd known about Baking Soda before I stockpiled the chemical products!

Sunday, 22 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 22: Tins of chopped tomatoes


I'm not really sure why, but I have a strange habit of buying tins of chopped tomatoes in bulk.  I don't mean the packs of 6 that you can get in the supermarket, but I mean a carton of 4 packs of 6 - ie 24 tins at a time, from Costco


It's not as though I do a huge amount of cooking with tomatoes (or with anything...), and they're not the sort of thing you can just open and eat as a tasty snack(!).  They sit in a cupboard taking up far too much storage space, mocking me each time I open the cupboard door.  I don't know what happened over the past few years, but I ended up with about 48 tins of tomatoes lurking in the cupboard.  My tomato amnesia is a close rival to the bath product amnesia discussed in yesterday's post

Saturday, 21 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 21: Stuff to put in the bath

I love nice, smelly, bubbly stuff in my bath, or a luxurious oil, or crystals, or one of those "bath bombs" that explodes into the water (except when they have lots of petals and bits of junk in them).  The thing is, I only (usually) have one bath a day, and there is only a certain amount of product that you can put in one bath.


Why is it then, that every time I am in a supermarket, chemist or (worst of all), Costco, do I feel the need to buy another bath product?  I suffer from bubble bath amnesia whenever I see any of these items for sale, and I put one in my basket every time.  Costco is the worst, because they sell packs of 3 VERY large Radox bubbly.  My bathroom cupboard is full of it, and I probably need to have 5 baths a day for the next year to use up all of the contents of my cupboard. 

I CERTAINLY don't need any more bath products!

However.... I don't think I will object if Santa brings me something nice from Jo Malone...

Friday, 20 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 20: Earrings

I have got out of the habit of wearing earrings, or at least, wearing different earrings on different days.  In my days of power-dressing/shoulder pads/high heels/red lipstick/overpowering perfume, I used to wear the earrings to match - very large, dangly and shiny, I would never wear the same pair two days running.  My jewellery box was full of lots of pieces of metal, plus quite a few nice pairs of more subtle gold earrings. 


These days I really can't be doing walking around with anything resembling Christmas tree decorations dangling from my ears.  The most I usually manage is a pair of studs, or maybe some small hoops.  Once in, I usually leave them in for a couple of weeks, as I can't be bothered to take them out.  I often lose the backs, or sometimes a stud, when I am washing my hair and manage to catch one.




I won't be buying myself any more earrings.  That said, I would not be unappreciative if any little light blue boxes (you know the ones) turned up in my Christmas stocking, with a very tasteful pair in white gold...

Thursday, 19 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 19: Fleeces

There is something very comforting about a lovely, soft, fluffy fleece.  They are so comfortable to wear, and so warm and snuggly.  Perfectly suited to the British weather, they can be worn all year round, even in the summer on the frequent occasions when the sun isn't anywhere to be seen. 







I have quite a collection of fleeces in various colours - some that zip all the way up, and some that pull over the head.  I even have a couple of sleeveless versions to "layer" (probably with another fleece!). 

There is one small problem, and that is that they are not exactly... well.. stylish!  Whilst they are probably OK to wear on the "slopes" (not that I have every ventured anywhere NEAR a "slope"); it is just about acceptable to wear them when carrying out some active outdoor task, such as gardening; and it is OK to wear very expensive, branded versions from "outdoor" shops for outdoorsy pursuits such as rock climbing and extreme walking, it isn't really considered acceptable to wear non-branded versions for everyday wear.  It is probably because the cheaper versions are worn by people doing manual labour in cold places, including road sweepers and cleaners. 





I am rather taken by the latest fashion for "onesies" - now they WOULD be warm and snuggly... Perhaps Santa will bring me one?

Wednesday, 18 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 18: Clothes for my darling son

Not so very long ago, I could buy anything (as long as it wasn't pink!) for my son, and he would happily wear it.  I could pick up t-shirts, jeans, jumpers, fleeces from Tesco or Sainsbury's and he would wear them all without a glimpse at the label or a derisive comment. 

Not so now!  Any item of clothing I have bought for my son in the past year or so has been met with a look of horror, and a muttered grunt that there is absolutely no possible chance that he is going to wear the offending item.  This makes it very difficult to get him any new clothes, as he can't stand shopping, so it's not as though he wants to come with me to choose anything.

Darling hubby jumped on the bandwagon, and said that he would take his son shopping for clothes as, he thought, he was much more in tune with youngsters these days (ha!!!) and would be able to assist his son to choose some tasteful but fashionable items.  I went along with this as it saves me the hassle.  In the summer, we went to one of those retail outlet centres.  Normally this would be a nightmare, as we all walk round together, and I have to put up DH and DS whinging about the amount of time I spend in each shop.  Not so on this occasion - I suggested that they went off together to find some nice clothes for DS, which left me to wander round at my leisure - Bliss!  There mission was successful, and they bought a few pairs of jeans/trousers, and some nice t-shirts and other tops.  DH was feeling very happy that he was able to gloat about his excellent taste, and DS was happy with his clothes.  Win/win for all for us.

More recently, I was in a supermarket with DS, and I pointed out that he needed a few more items for winter, so would he like to have a look at the things they had in store.  We managed to find a nice pair of trousers that he liked, and stocked up on some underwear and pjs.  Then DS spotted a top that he got very excited about.  It was a long-sleeved jersey top with a picture of a reindeer head on the front.  He now won't take it off except when he is forced to wear his school uniform (I'd probably find he's wearing it underneath if I checked!), or going to bed.   It looks a bit like this one:

Tuesday, 17 December 2013

Things I am not going to buy - Day 17: Food that is reduced because it needs using up that day


This could, technically, come under the banner of "bargains", as covered in yesterday's blog.  I wander around the supermarket, or M&S food department, and spot the magic words "REDUCED" on some fresh produce.  That is, of course, one of the trigger words that sets off the bargain hunting instinct, and I am immediately on "bargain alert". 
The magic word!


Now we all know that the shops are over-cautious with their sell-by/best-by/use-by dates, and we all get a bit confused (or is it just me???). 



When I buy food that is reduced because it needs to be eaten immediately, I have every good intention of either cooking it on the day I buy it or the next day, or, of freezing it (if it is meat).  In reality, I take it home, put it in the fridge, and find it a week later, along with the other food I have bought and not eaten.